OrbyComing to Toronto first
Love more than one. Safely.
Private until you say yes.
Dating and community for singles, couples and polycules, open or curious. Every member is ID-verified, and nothing starts until everyone says yes.
- ID checkEvery member ID-verified
- PrivateChats only you can read
- 0Tracking cookies on this site. Your data is never sold.
- 3Founding Cities: Toronto, and the first two to open after it
Safety and privacy
What we don’t keep can’t leak.
Verified members
Every member passes an ID check before they can meet anyone.
Encrypted chats
Messages, photos and videos are locked on your phone. Not even Orby can read them.
A rough area, never your location
Your phone sends an area of about 5 km. Your age and online status show only if you choose. We never sell your data.
Inside the app
More than swiping.
Couples and polycules meet as one card, and each person says their own yes. Paths are useful from day one, even before you meet anyone. Why Orby. Real screens from the app: swipe through them.
How Orby works
Three steps, and nobody has to guess.
Get verified
A quick ID and selfie check keeps under-18s out and puts a real person behind every profile. We keep only that you passed, your birth year and a one-way code of your ID, never the ID itself.
Set your lights
Say what you love, what’s a maybe and what’s not for you, before anyone has to ask. Your paths show what you’d like to explore.
Meet, with every yes private
Like a card, match, chat, and play cards together. Everyone agrees privately before anything starts, and a no is never shown.
Questions
What people ask us.
Is Orby free?
Yes. Meeting people, chatting, and every safety tool are free, always. Plus is an optional subscription with extras like a wider search range and more photos.
Can my partner join with me?
Yes. Each of you has your own profile and login, and you link them as a couple or a group. Nobody speaks or agrees for anyone else.
Who can see my profile?
Nobody, until you switch on “Show me in Discover”. Then only verified members, and only what you choose to show. Photos can stay blurred until you match, and nobody ever learns who passed on them.
Will anyone know I’m on Orby?
Not from us. Our emails come from “Orby” with plain subjects that never mention non-monogamy, this site has no advertising trackers, and we never sell the waiting list or share it for advertising. Leave any time, and your email is deleted straight away.
Is it only for Toronto?
Toronto opens first. Join the waiting list from your city: we open a place when enough people near each other are waiting, and the first two to open after Toronto become Founding Cities. We write to you first when Orby arrives near you.
When can I download it?
Orby is in testing now. Waiting list members hear first when it arrives on iPhone and Android.
The network
Where Orby opens next.
Every city with people on the waiting list joins the network, linked to its neighbours. When enough people near each other have joined, it turns green, and we get ready to open Orby there once we’ve checked it’s safe and legal for members. After Toronto, the first two places to open become Founding Cities. Add yours below.
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Three Founding Cities
Be one of the first 1,000 in your city.
Toronto has one of Canada’s most open, curious and queer-friendly communities, so it’s where Orby opens first: for polyamorous people, open couples, swingers, relationship anarchists and the ENM-curious across Toronto and the GTA. After Toronto, the next two cities to open become Founding Cities too, wherever Orby can open. Only confirmed sign-ups count; we remove fake or repeated ones.
In each Founding City, the first 1,000 verified members get the Founding Member badge with their city’s name on it, for as long as they keep their account. Orby is new, and founding members help shape it. If a friend would want Orby, send them the link yourself.
Who we are. Orby is run by Recyco Tech LLC, an independent company. Write to hello@joinorby.com (privacy: privacy@joinorby.com) or by post: Recyco Tech LLC, 1401 21st St #R, Sacramento, CA 95811, United States.